My first valentines day with my first valentine. #firstvalentinesday 😻😽💙
"No one is a slut. “Slut” is a made-up word to keep women from having as much fun as men. A person who enjoys sex is just a person and a person who is a virgin is also just a person and everyone should lay off each other’s sex lives. Retire the word “slut” please."
— 20 Things We Need To Stop Talking About In 2013 (via maarkhoppus)
(via aperfectshadeofdarkblue)
tbh all i really want is somebody that will do the finger tracing thing on my back and let me read aloud to them and have rough sex with me
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Not being a rapist should not be a symbol of being a hero; it should be the bare minimum for decent behavior. Refusing to sleep with someone who is too intoxicated to consent or who is being forced into sex because someone is threatening her does not make you a “good guy;” it just means that you pass one of the lowest bars for basic humane treatment.
That these movies are using that act as some sort of shorthand for “hero” is troubling. It implies that these men are doing something extraordinary by resisting the urge (and often it is an urge that they have to resist, especially in the films where they end up having consensual sex with the women later) to rape or take advantage of these women. Ultimately, that narrative helps support the idea that avoiding rape is a difficult thing, something worthy of praise.
The truth is that avoiding rape isn’t hard. If you don’t have consent, you don’t have sex. If you’re not sure that you have consent, you don’t have sex. If you are unable to get consent because of the person’s condition, you don’t have sex. If you get consent and you don’t want to have sex, you don’t have sex.
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Balancing Jane: Sexual Consent in Pop Culture: Waiting for Consent Doesn’t Make You a Hero (via naomieve)
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I’M LOOKING AT YOU, TYRION LANNISTER.
(via sweetdreamr)
(via glorianas)
when ever there’s a chase scene in a film and some fruit stall gets knocked over i always feel really bad because what if that’s the fruit guys only source of income and his wife has left him and he has a kid in hospital with cancer i want to know more about the fate of the fruit seller does he get it together and turn his life around or is it the last straw for him we’ll never know
(Source: p1ants, via girlqueer-deactivated20130524)
(Source: mensrightsactivist, via yoladni)
there’s nothing that gets me more angry than seeing people tell young girls to tone down how brilliant they are in order to make men and boys more comfortable
(via glorianas)
